1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:02,800 Sweet dinner. 2 00:00:04,660 --> 00:00:07,060 So, how did that situation go south? 3 00:00:07,340 --> 00:00:14,320 Well, the husband saw his wife flirting with Quentin at the club and got 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:15,320 jealous. 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:17,760 Is flirting not allowed? 6 00:00:18,240 --> 00:00:22,360 When it goes beneath the surface, probably. 7 00:00:24,380 --> 00:00:29,160 He got the sense that Katie was a bit more emotionally invested in Quentin 8 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:30,160 she was letting on. 9 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:36,840 They began to fight, and then... Now, they're in the middle of a $20 million 10 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:38,440 divorce. Wow. 11 00:00:40,540 --> 00:00:47,080 Well, whether or not we actually decide to do this... I love you more than I 12 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:48,120 could love any other man. 13 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:49,920 I know that. 14 00:00:50,540 --> 00:00:52,380 And that's why I know we can handle this. 15 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,880 But why do we have to handle anything? 16 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:59,440 I mean, we can just go on living our lives like we always have. 17 00:01:02,499 --> 00:01:08,120 Or we can give each other the freedom to explore what this world has to offer 18 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,760 without worrying that that same freedom will drive us apart. 19 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:19,020 I could hardly believe that Tom and I had gotten to this place of complete and 20 00:01:19,020 --> 00:01:20,020 total honesty. 21 00:01:20,320 --> 00:01:21,320 But we had. 22 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,540 And now, the opportunity was there for me to have everything. 23 00:01:26,830 --> 00:01:31,110 The day that Tom and I finally decided to see if we had what it took to hot 24 00:01:31,110 --> 00:01:35,430 wife, I met up with a man we found on a swinger site, Isaiah. 25 00:01:36,190 --> 00:01:40,410 He was someone who had a lot of experience in the lifestyle, who worked 26 00:01:40,410 --> 00:01:42,810 lot of couples, and also someone neither of us knew. 27 00:01:43,130 --> 00:01:47,570 It was important that he had no connection to either of us in case 28 00:01:47,570 --> 00:01:48,570 get complicated. 29 00:01:48,810 --> 00:01:54,050 It was exciting getting to know another man, another man that, before that 30 00:01:54,050 --> 00:01:56,460 afternoon was over, would be inside me. 31 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:01,160 And although I was nervous, I was way more than ready for this adventure. 32 00:03:04,510 --> 00:03:05,510 Thank you. 33 00:03:47,470 --> 00:03:48,470 you 34 00:05:23,940 --> 00:05:24,940 Thank you. 35 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:31,800 You got my dick, baby? 36 00:14:32,340 --> 00:14:33,800 You're really my chick. 37 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:36,280 Don't stop choking. 38 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:55,360 Baby, 39 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:58,440 you are too good at this. 40 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:00,920 Were you never going to do this before? 41 00:15:01,180 --> 00:15:02,180 No. 42 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:10,540 Oh, my 43 00:15:10,540 --> 00:15:14,360 God. 44 00:15:42,660 --> 00:15:47,640 I thought I'd be taking care of you, but you're taking great care of me. 45 00:22:43,290 --> 00:22:44,290 Thank you. 46 00:23:43,100 --> 00:23:45,200 Yes, baby, that dick is hard for you. 47 00:24:08,650 --> 00:24:09,650 Hmm. 48 00:25:28,120 --> 00:25:31,080 I love you. 49 00:26:00,639 --> 00:26:01,639 Oh, man. 50 00:28:36,430 --> 00:28:40,910 After it was over, the first thing I wanted to do was see Tom, to thank him 51 00:28:40,910 --> 00:28:41,910 this experience. 52 00:28:42,250 --> 00:28:46,810 Thinking back to my first time hot wiping, I'm grateful for the people who 53 00:28:46,810 --> 00:28:47,810 it possible. 54 00:28:48,010 --> 00:28:52,950 My yoga teacher, who had had countless lovers over the years, but never looked 55 00:28:52,950 --> 00:28:55,150 at any man quite like she did her husband. 56 00:28:56,770 --> 00:29:01,090 And Vivian, and Paul, who managed to be one of the happiest, most sensible 57 00:29:01,090 --> 00:29:02,370 couples I'd ever met. 58 00:29:03,410 --> 00:29:05,010 And even that woman, Katie. 59 00:29:05,580 --> 00:29:10,080 who I never met, but whose experience taught me that not everyone is meant to 60 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:16,180 a hot wife because not everyone has a marriage as beautiful and trusting as 61 00:29:16,180 --> 00:29:17,180 and I do.